Habits work through what is know as the HABIT LOOP The Trigger/Cue: something internal or external that causes a reaction, feeling, or emotion. Routine: the action you CHOOSE as your reaction: getting angry, smoking, fighting, eating, crying, drinking... Reward: the pleasure chemicals are released in the brain for successfully completing a routine. Because the habit […]
You can COMPLETELY change who you are by changing how you talk to yourself! Instead of telling yourself "I am so dumb" Tell yourself "I used to be so dumb" Instead of telling yourself "I am so fat" Tell yourself "I used to be so fat" Instead of telling yourself "I am so ugly" Tell […]
The root of all of our problems To hate others is ugly. To hate yourself is uglier -Slovate The root cause of most of our problems in life is a diminished self worth. The situation or struggles we face is just a symptom. Underlying every issue we face in life and every difficult decision we […]
N - NEURO - USING THE SENSES L - LINGUISTICS - USING LANGUAGE/SPOKEN/UNSPOKEN WORD - COMMUNICATION P - PROGRAMMING - THE WAY WE HAVE BEEN PROGRAMMED TO REACT, OUR HABITS AND SEQUENCE OF ACTIONS THE "N" IN NLP - Neurology The study of the mind + nervous systems. How we think and how the body […]
The hardest thing I ever did was walking away from someone that I loved because they couldn't commit. I thought she was 𝕋ℍ𝔼 𝕆ℕ𝔼. We got engaged, talked about having a child, my kids loved her and she loved them too... But it turns out I was wrong. She was scared. So she ran back […]
There was an old saying I remember from when I was a kid... "You are what you eat" I guess that could be true... But take it a step further "YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK" To manifest happiness into your life you have to THINK HAPPY THOUGHTS. You must change your mindset to think happy […]
Expectations: The want or need to control the outcome of a given situation. A strong belief that something will happen or be the case in the future. A belief that someone will or should do or say something or behave in a certain way. Expectations lead only to disappointment. When we have conversations in our […]
The human mind is prone to always seeing the negative in a situation or expecting negative results to happen in the future. It is like a built in safety mechanism in the mind. It's only goal is to keep us from doing anything that could potentially cause harm to us physically or emotionally.... Most of […]
