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March 2, 2021
Limiting Beliefs

Limiting beliefs are negative thoughts we have about ourselves that we have created from things that happened to us in the past. If you have limiting beliefs, you have consciously or subconsciously decided to believe something negative about yourself. Limiting beliefs tells us that we can't do certain things based on a fear of what […]

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March 2, 2021
The Soundtrack to My Life

๐—ฆ๐—ผ ๐—œ ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐—œ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜†. ๐—›๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐˜†๐—ฒ๐˜€. ๐—œ ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—” The soundtrack to my life is โ€œEverythingโ€™s Gonna be Alrightโ€, by Bob Marley because many tragic events have happened which have taught me that […]

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February 25, 2021
NLP Tip #4

ANCHORING Anchoring is probably one of the easiest NLP techniques that one can use to face a difficult situation. To use anchoring, you condition yourself to feel or think a certain way when you're doing something that you are scared to do. This is done through positive self-talk and positive affirmations. Essentially you want to […]

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February 17, 2021
All those little things that you stress about

All those little things that you stress about... Thinking about them doesn't do anything but keep you stressing.... They either happened in the past and NOTHING can change the outcome... OR they didn't happen yet and maybe never will... . ๐™๐™€๐™‡๐™‡ ๐™”๐™Š๐™๐™ ๐™ˆ๐™„๐™‰๐˜ฟ ๐™๐™Š ๐™Ž๐™๐™Š๐™‹ Choose a different thought to entertain. Think about how the […]

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February 12, 2021
Live in the Now Man!

One of the most fundamental principles of self love is having a positive mindset... Being PRESENT, what does that mean to you? The majority of people spend most of their time living either in the past ("I wish I had...") or in the future ("What if..."). But the only time that is reality and matters […]

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February 7, 2021
Is Blood Thicker Than Water

So I usually get my messages while in the shower, eyes closed, hot water running over my head... Today was no different. AND to top it off, as I got out of the shower and dried my face with the towel I noticed a spot of blood on the towel. I have a small cut […]

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February 6, 2021
NLP Tip #3

Content Reframing If you're having a hard time dealing with a situation in your life try this technique to change your mindset. Remember that you are the director in your movie, you are not an actor or a stage hand. It is your decision and your choice to control how your life takes place and […]

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January 21, 2021
NLP Tip #2

Habits work through what is know as the HABIT LOOP The Trigger/Cue: something internal or external that causes a reaction, feeling, or emotion. Routine: the action you CHOOSE as your reaction: getting angry, smoking, fighting, eating, crying, drinking... Reward: the pleasure chemicals are released in the brain for successfully completing a routine. Because the habit […]

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January 16, 2021
NLP Tip #1:

You can COMPLETELY change who you are by changing how you talk to yourself! Instead of telling yourself "I am so dumb" Tell yourself "I used to be so dumb" Instead of telling yourself "I am so fat" Tell yourself "I used to be so fat" Instead of telling yourself "I am so ugly" Tell […]

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