Gain a deeper understanding of the grieving brain and body.
Learn practical strategies to manage difficult emotions and find peace and healing after loss.
This course is based on the latest scientific research on grief and healing, offering a unique blend of experience and practical tools.
THE SHIFT is a 97-minute workshop that explains what’s keeping you stuck, and shows you how to change it using the latest in Neuroscience, Neuro Linguistics Programming, identity work, and raw truth.
It’s your brain and nervous system stuck in survival mode/fight or flight.
You’re not lazy.
You’re not broken.
You’re not “choosing to suffer.”
And this DOESN'T have to last forever.
You’re in a neurological loop that your brain and body doesn’t know how to escape...
until now, and THE SHIFT will teach you how.
If you are struggling to move forward after a loss and experiencing any of the following, THE SHIFT is for YOU.
Unlike traditional approaches, THE SHIFT uses proven scientific methods to help you understand the grief process and how it affects your brain and biology.
Gain a deeper understanding of grief and equip yourself with effective, research-backed strategies for healing.
Includes tools that you can use today to instantly shift your nervous system into the relaxation response and gain inner peace and calmness.
❤️ I’m now living my best life.Toni
I lost my husband of 37yrs. In 2020… I was so scared that I was going to be in so much pain with grief for the rest of my life. Following Jay’s guidance changed everything. I’m finally living again while still honoring the love I lost.
🔥 This might have saved my life.Dave
I lost my wife a year ago and spiraled through despair, anger and anxiety. I tried everything, books, support groups, nothing worked. This is the best. Jay helped me realize that I'm not weak or broken. This shift might literally have saved my life.
Hey, my name is Jay. Ten years ago, my kids and I lost Larissa, my soulmate of 26 years, the mother of my children, and the unconditional love of my life, to depression. I spent nearly five years drowning in grief... and alcohol. Not healing, not living, just surviving... barely.
OUr children were just three and thirteen when she died. I was trying to show up for them, but I was exhausted, in a fog, drunk, high, and lost. I had no motivation. I was sleeping too much or not at all. I was falling apart but pretending I was okay. I went to the bar seven nights a week to numb the pain, and called it coping.
I stayed in that hell for so long because I believed what everyone around me was saying. That time would heal. That grief lasts forever. That I would just learn to live with it. So I just kept doing what I was doing and hoping for the best. All while wearing a mask that said "I'm fine" for everyone else.
The kids and I attended a grief support group and I spent three and a half years retelling the same story over and over. I thought I was helping myself, but all I was doing was reinforcing the pain, keeping the grief in control, and nothing changed.
Now it is ten years later. My daughter is thirteen. My son is twenty-two and married. And I can say without hesitation—I love my life.
I still love her. I still miss her. I still talk to her every day. But it no longer makes me cry. It makes me smile. It brings peace, not pain. There are no more “should have beens.” No more “what ifs.” Just life, exactly as it is.
That is what healing looks like.
Not moving on. Not forgetting. Not stuffing it down. Healing.
And that is what this workshop was built to help you create.
Now, five years after I made the choice to heal, I am a happy solo dad, a certified coach, an author, and a course creator... and living my best life by choice.
✔️ 97 minutes of real talk and relief rooted in Neuroscience, Neurobiology, NLP, and truth.
Not fluff, not therapy… just the shift your brain and nervous system has been waiting for
✔️ The Companion Workbook
Reflect, go deeper, and apply what you learn with this printable guide and exercises for grounding and reflection
✔️ The Guided Meditation
Reset your nervous system with this guided meditation designed to ground and calm with theta binaural beats and guided visualization
✔️ Instant, lifetime access
Watch on your own time, as many times as you need, forever.
✔️ A proven path out of the pain
This isn’t about coping, it’s about healing, at a cellular level, and it starts now
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What if I already see a therapist or counselor?
This isn’t therapy—it’s brain training. You can absolutely do both. But if therapy hasn’t helped, this will show you why and show you what you can do TODAY to stop the pain, redirect your thoughts, and gain control over the waves of emotion and suffering.
How long do I have access?
Forever. One payment, lifetime access. No subscription.
Does healing mean letting them go or forgetting them?
Not even close. Healing doesn’t erase your love—it helps you carry it without drowning in pain. You’ll still miss them, but you won’t have to suffer to prove it. Healing is not letting them go, it's learning to let go of what is causing the pain.
What should I expect after I watch it?
Clarity, calm, peace, and a shift in how you see your grief. It might hit hard—but it will also feel like relief. You’ll understand what’s been happening in your brain… and what to do next.
I’ve tried meditation but I can’t shut my thoughts off, is this one different?
That means you’re human and you are still living. This meditation isn’t about stopping thoughts, it’s about changing the way your brain responds to them. You’ll learn exactly how to do that inside.
I've tried other grief support before, and it hasn't worked.
Grief is a unique experience. The Shift combines neuroscience and practical tools to help you understand the root causes of being stuck in grief and rewire your brain for healing. This approach addresses challenges that other methods might not have overcome.
How is this course different from therapy or traditional counseling?
While therapy and counseling are valuable, The Shift offers a science-backed framework for understanding and actively engaging with your grief. It provides strategies and tools to use at your own pace, complementing or supplementing your current support system.
Is this course appropriate for all types of grief?
Yes, The Shift is designed to help navigate grief from any type of loss. The principles are rooted in the science of the brain and emotions, making them broadly applicable.
What if I don't have time for another long course.
The Shift is structured as a focused workshop, taking approximately 97 minutes to complete. You can access the material at your own pace, making it easy to fit into your schedule.
How quickly will I see results from this course?
The timeframe for seeing results varies. The Shift provides knowledge and tools to begin making positive changes immediately. Consistent application of the principles will lead to sooner progress and benefits.
How do I know this course will actually help me?
The Shift is based on modern research and principles of neuroscience and human behavior and work for everyone that applies the techniques.
What if I don't feel better after completing the course?
The Shift provides insights and strategies that can support your healing journey. Revisit the material and continue practicing the techniques. Feel free to reach out for specific concerns and additional support or consider my 12 week Life After Loss coaching program which offers guaranteed results.
And now... it is time to come back home to you.
You already know what it feels like to stay stuck. You live it every day.
You have heard all the clichés. You have tried to cope, to survive. You have done what everyone told you would help, and it is still not easier. YOU DON"T have to learn to live with it.
So now you have a choice. You can keep waiting for time to heal something it never will… or you can do the one thing you have not done yet, something that actually rewires what grief has done to your brain, your body, and your life.
This workshop is not going to heal you. You are. But this is the first step and will show you HOW!
