Many of us choose to live in our fears and lack the self love needed to create the future we want from life.
No matter how hard we try or think about the things we want they always seem out of reach.
So how do we do it? How do we move in the direction that we need to to create the future we desire?
𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝟓 𝐭𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐂𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐅𝐔𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐃𝐄𝐒𝐈𝐑𝐄!
1️⃣ SLOW DOWN! - When we focus on what’s going on around us, the go go go of our daily life. We forget about the things that are important to our growth and our desires. We get distracted and put our own needs on the back burner. Put aside time for yourself to heal, to grow, and to set a course of action for your future. Take some real time for yourself to just be by yourself for a little while free from all the distractions in your life. Sit and think about what you want your life to be like and what it means to you.
2️⃣ BELIEVE IN YOURSELF - Most of us spend 95% of our thoughts in either the future, the past, or focusing on what to do next.. We worry about the ‘what ifs’ and the possibilities of what won't go right. When you find yourself focusing on the self-doubt, stop and say: “Yes, I can." Learn to accept nothing less than the best for yourself and take things one step at a time. Baby steps in the right direction lead to giant leaps over time. Remember that there is no stopping you but fear and what if's that probably will never happen and even if they do, it is worth the risk.
3️⃣ CHANGE YOUR MINDSET - Learn how to build a better tomorrow by taking steps today. Change your focus from what can go wrong to what can go right. By simply changing your focus you can change your mindset. Instead of allowing your thoughts to go in the direction of negativity. CHOOSE LOVE OVER FEAR. Remind yourself that FEAR will only bring you that which it allows and LOVE will to the same.
4️⃣ BE PRESENT - All that we can control in life is how we choose to react to what is happening NOW. We can only experience thoughts and emotions in the present moment; it is the only place we exist. We can not change the past but we can create a better future by doing in the now.
5️⃣ TAKE ACTION - The only way to achieve your goals is life is to take steps towards them. Once you have made up your mind that you want or need changes in your life, you MUST take action towards it in order to start the process. If not, you’re just leaving another desire to be forgotten. It doesn’t have to be a huge leap, which can seem overwhelming. But just a small step towards your goal will symbolize the beginning of your journey. It will prove to yourself that you are committed to making this a reality.
We have to realize that life happens in real time... It flies past us along with the hopes, dreams, and opportunities that present themselves to us for our own greater good.
We have the power to create the lives we desire but man of us are scared to take the leap of faith to make it happen. Fear of failure and staying in our comfort zones robs us of the leife we are meant to live.
𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅 𝐄𝐍𝐎𝐔𝐆𝐇 𝐓𝐎 𝐓𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐍𝐄𝐂𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐀𝐑𝐘 𝐑𝐈𝐒𝐊𝐒 𝐈𝐍 𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐄
𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐲.